Be careful with this kind of scam.  People pretending to be your friend, people making you believe that they are the ones who is available all the time, people who delight in your miseries, use you for whatever you can give them, people who seems there to help you, but the truth is,  they just like to gossip about you. They are called FRENEMIES.

I believed that life is too short to be surrounded with people who don’t really care about us, and if you discover that you have frenemies, deal and put it in perspective and move on. There are too many good people in the world to waste spending your time on the ones who aren’t.


  1. I no longer lament deleting certain people from my life. Many people look at us from just 2 standpoints: is this a person an asset for me or a waste of time knowing? I can often tell a person’s nature for friendship. When they no longer look you in the eye when making proposals they usually have negative motives. Experience makes us more sensible in making “who is my friend” decisions. Sometimes heartbreaking but I delete even the slightest toxic or parasitic relationship. Thanks for your recent visit to my blog.

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  2. Been victimized by one. Too late to discover she just looked for some crumpled parts of me that she could use against me. She successfully did! Later, she sent me a friend request in FB. Of course, I decline. I learned my lesson fairly well.

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