I know that treating someone how they treat you is passive-aggressive behavior, meaning we are not being honest at all about our own feelings. Simply, we are just reacting to what happens around us without being open and facing the issues. At some point in our life, we are guilty of this behavior, possibly because when we have treated badly, we want to pay them back, and of course, they don’t like it, just like we don’t.
They said,how others treat you is a reflection and we teach others how to treat us. Some people interpret and understand the behavior of others, and some cannot.
Now, it is in our responsibility to allow or not to allow such nerve breaking treatment and it’s up to us if we are going to clear and let them understand how we want to be treated, or just continuously treat them the way they have treated us.
You will be the one to decide after all.