Instead of thinking about how hard life is,
just fill your box with good things and pile them all.
“If you aren’t being treated right by a guy, don’t wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry ASS, he’s a disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes….and say “i love you” ..and actually mean it. “
For almost every day in five months, I have always seen this old lady carrying her suitcase with plastic bags and some stuff. She constantly stopped by and spread some grains on that wall. First, I didn’t notice what she was up to until I saw around more than twenty of doves hovering towards her and landed to eat the grains. It was a splendid scenery!
I haven’t seen anyone cared so much to do this thing in the morning aside from hastening and bustling to work, that includes myself. I tried to greet her several times or just give her a smile, but it seems she has her own world.
She never looked at me at all. Instead, I found her chattering alone and smiling in the air. I don’t remember she changed her clothes either because she’s always wearing that gray long sleeves and sweatpants, a little dirty.
One day, one week, one month, I didn’t see her any longer. There were no doves anymore. She just disappeared along with my morning little joy.
I wonder what happened to her. I just hope and pray that she is just fine.
Don’t ever fuse your ignorance to thoughtfulness because that what makes you a shallow person. Being thoughtful means to share and to care without expecting in return.
Don’t misunderstand what true friends are. They are ones who will tell you who you really are. Expect they will hurt you, disappoint you and will not always please you. And if you cannot hold on this, there is nothing to be thankful of your friendship; everything about you is just a CRAP.
Not long time ago, my son had this cough that made him suffered for a week. He couldn’t sleep well, he couldn’t eat and much more he couldn’t play. Aside from sleepless nights I had and spent money for his medicine, my heart felt agonize.
So I told him:
“beh, give me your cough because i don’t want you to suffer anymore..”
and he replied:
“I don’t want mommy, i don’t want you to get sick..I’m fine with my cough..”
That was the sweetest and kindest thing i have ever heard. And that, I am proud that he is my son.
A lot of people go through life with only a few friends. It seems that some have less than that. They have no one on whom they can call in good times or bad. There is no one with whom to bounce ideas around, or to talk about deep and troubling subjects. They have no one to call in times of need or difficulty. They are at the mercy of life, standing alone.
Friendship is a blessing. Friends will cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our original limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart.
Friends are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments.
We often just want them around, to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared . Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.