In every life, we have some trouble.

Aint got no place to lay your head, somebody came and took your bed.

The landlord says your rent is late, he may have to litigate.

Aint got no cash, ain’t got no style, ain’t got no girl to make you smile.

Don’t worry, be happy. Don’t worry about a thing, cause every little thing is gonna be alright.

Rise up this morning, smiled with the risin’ sun. Three little birds sit by my doorstep, singin’ sweet songs of melodies pure and true, sayin’,

Don’t worry ’bout a thing,
‘Cause every little thing is gonna be alright.

Don’t worry, be happy.





Do you feel like saying “I don’t care” to a few things happen in your life?

Don’t be too embarrassed if you made mistakes, because that’s who you are, imperfect.

Forget about what everyone thinks and says, the utmost freedom is when you never exchange your happiness over a mistake.

Happy Sunday everyone!

Goodbye Grumpy!

Let’s say if you have a roomie who is  grumpy and just concerned only with her own interest. Are you going to separate from her?

What if she’s going to leave you first and you have this “oh, I must be the one to do it” looks in your face, wondering what’s her real cause because you knew she’s quite a fibber and right into your very eyes you can’t believe her anymore. What are you going to do then?

When I was told that she wanted to leave the soonest, my mind burst with fury. Yes, I could have gotten angry in front of her, told her I couldn’t afford to pay the rent by myself or just fucking hit her, but wow I was able to calm myself.  My aim is to make her feel like a guilty child, not because I wanted her to stay, but to highlight that she wasn’t a big lose to my end.

After three days without so much effort, I found a new place to stay. I think it helps me to find nearly because I allowed myself out of negativity. How to avoid them?

Here’s the summary I got from wiki.

  1. CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS.  I reformed my thoughts to “I am free now from a grumpy person ever.”
    I don’t have to explain myself as long as I didn’t do anything bad from this situation.
  3. FORGIVE and FORGET. I think I can do this even if I start it with a fake smile and need to hold my tongue.
  4. DISTRACT YOURSELF FROM NEGATIVE THINKING.  I go out, meet with my real friends, talk about it if necessary and jogged to release the tension. We could do so many things to distract ourselves from negativity.


    Goodbye Grumpy. Hope not to see you soon.



Every day is not a wonderful day, at least for me.

I know we are going through different problems and issues in our daily life; some may give up and others may not.

As an expat here, away from my family and no stability, I am enduring whatever I have to go through because I believe… that there is still TOMORROW.

To be happy.
To change things.
To believe.
To hope.
For miracles.

I don’t usually have a perfect day, but I am always grateful every tomorrow.


In response to the Daily Prompt: Reason to Believe

In Reason to Believe, Bruce Springsteen sings, “At the end of every hard-earned day/people find some reason to believe.” What’s your reason to believe?

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Thoughts You Need To Get Rid Of for Tuesday


Poisonous Thought #1 – Worrying what Others Think of you.

Poisonous Thought #2  – Feeling Unprepared for the Future.

Poisonous Thought #3  – Equating Money with Happiness.

Poisonous Thought #4 – Thinking You Can Change the Unchangeable.

Poisonous Thought #5 – Thinking You Can Change Others.

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I hate dealing people which have a negative outlook in life.

If we want to accomplish anything  we have to remain positive at all times no matter how hard the situation may be.  With this we can carry a positive vision to positive action.  I know sometimes that this is easier to say than done, but only we can change our attitudes and thoughts.  

We must not allow ourselves to dwell with negative thoughts if we want to have a positive life.  Being positive won’t guarantee you’ll succeed. But being negative will guarantee you won’t.